They always stay alone
Introverts are not prisoners; they are just always isolated not originally by the environment by their own self. Even if you should spot one in a refugee camp, they can be identified easily because they could be the only one alone all by themselves. If they are outside, it is always for a specific purpose and if they present in your party, it is because of a pressured invitation.
They are not the hangout specimen but hanging out with one is a treasure you should keep; they stick to you like you are their new t-shirt.
They are Vulnerable
Approaching an introvert is as easy as sipping a wine in a glass cup, but sometimes it takes becoming an alpha to approach them or to be doubtless, you have to an extrovert to break in their walls.
They talk less but think much
If you are having a long conversation with them, you are really the one staring the conversation and they speeches are short form and they don’t talk so fast, they think in between the talk, so they absorb so much energy using their brain.
A little compliment wins them over
An introvert develops a trust easily by prizing, they pay so much attention to your words and actions, and if you should find a female introvert at club tonight, with a little compliment to her beauty, she would leave with her card, I don’t mean her “ATM” card, maybe her complimentary card, her office card and even her phone number. I can’t assure you she would be sleeping with you at first sight and with a little conversation and compliment, you have to build trust and is going take you so much time and so much talk also, you could also wrap it up with some gifting and hanging out.
To be sincere with you, the introvert is really expensive, and if you ask me why? I tell you am an introvert.
Easily gets jealous
If your spouse is an introvert, you should careful, when you play around her other friends and also your own friends. She easily gets pale when you kiss or even hug someone else, except you have to be sure you are not being seen. You have so much work to do to convince him/her to trust you, that you can’t be cheating and even if you have to be a play buddy, it shouldn’t be with an introvert, except you are promoting suicide.
If you are in a serious relationship with an introvert, and you get to run an analysis, you could end up getting a convincing answer that its only you and she could hardly cheat on you.
Summary:
When you find an introvert, give them so much attention, and don’t always wait for them to ask you for help, always ask them if they would need help and if you can offer a help, please, always do. And if you can’t, help them find someone who can and always show love to everyone both the introvert and the extrovert.
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